No TLB in toolbar list

If I drag an icon "over 2 or 3 to the right, it just "jumps back" to where it was?? (it behaves almost like it's locked in place.....)

You can't to solve this problem by drag&drop. Right-click the every icon that on the right side of your toolbar, select "Appearance" submenu and remove the checkmark from the "Move to the right" menu item. When you remove this from all buttons - your buttons will be at the left. I hope this helps.