Tool bar button only

I am reasonably sure that this is a simple problem that I am overlooking somehow. However, I have spent several valuable hours trying to figure it out to no avail. Win 7 Ultimate. I have created a tool bar. The only thing I want to see is the button to open the toolbar - I do not want any icons on the Windows toolbar itself. What happens now is the toolbar I created has 7 items. 2 show all the time next to each other followed by the button to show the other icons as below:

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I only want to see the button with all icons of the toolbar hidden until I press this button as below:

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When I click the button, then I want the toolbar to show.

How do I do that. I have looked at every option for setup and the entire help file plus the FAQ. What have I missed?

I've prepared the video to show how to control the toolbar width. I hope this video will help you.